here is my first tumblr post in 8 years


i randomly logged back on today bc i was trying to find a breakup playlist i made in high school (lmao) and realized i am somehow still getting new followers regularly which is so insane to me. i just wanted to pop in and update everyone that i am marrying a boy from new jersey i met on tumblr.com 12 years ago because we loved vampire weekend and weed. never stop posting.

Thirty flirty and thriving

true love is REAL!!!!

true love is REAL!!!!

when u go off on ur eye makeup for the night and it won’t come off and u are trying to study but glitter keeps getting in ur eye

would u like an egg in this trying time (at Drkmttr)

would u like an egg in this trying time (at Drkmttr)

ohnosiro:
“ Wikipedia stoically acknowledges the cuteness of frogs.
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ohnosiro:

Wikipedia stoically acknowledges the cuteness of frogs.

Let’s pretend, for a moment, that you are a 22-year-old college student in Kampala, Uganda. You’re sitting in class and discreetly scrolling through Facebook on your phone. You see that there has been another mass shooting in America, this time in a place called San Bernardino. You’ve never heard of it. You’ve never been to America. But you’ve certainly heard a lot about gun violence in the U.S. It seems like a new mass shooting happens every week.
You wonder if you could go there and get stricter gun legislation passed. You’d be a hero to the American people, a problem-solver, a lifesaver. How hard could it be? Maybe there’s a fellowship for high-minded people like you to go to America after college and train as social entrepreneurs. You could start the nonprofit organization that ends mass shootings, maybe even win a humanitarian award by the time you are 30.
Sound hopelessly naïve? Maybe even a little deluded? It is. And yet, it’s not much different from how too many Americans think about social change in the “Global South.”
If you asked a 22-year-old American about gun control in this country, she would probably tell you that it’s a lot more complicated than taking some workshops on social entrepreneurship and starting a non-profit. She might tell her counterpart from Kampala about the intractable nature of our legislative branch, the long history of gun culture in this country and its passionate defenders, the complexity of mental illness and its treatment. She would perhaps mention the added complication of agitating for change as an outsider.
But if you ask that same 22-year-old American about some of the most pressing problems in a place like Uganda — rural hunger or girl’s secondary education or homophobia — she might see them as solvable. Maybe even easily solvable.
I’ve begun to think about this trend as the reductive seduction of other people’s problems. It’s not malicious. In many ways, it’s psychologically defensible; we don’t know what we don’t know.
If you’re young, privileged, and interested in creating a life of meaning, of course you’d be attracted to solving problems that seem urgent and readily solvable. Of course you’d want to apply for prestigious fellowships that mark you as an ambitious altruist among your peers. Of course you’d want to fly on planes to exotic locations with, importantly, exotic problems.
There is a whole “industry” set up to nurture these desires and delusions — most notably, the 1.5 million nonprofit organizations registered in the U.S., many of them focused on helping people abroad. In other words, the young American ego doesn’t appear in a vacuum. Its hubris is encouraged through job and internship opportunities, conferences galore, and cultural propaganda — encompassed so fully in the patronizing, dangerously simple phrase “save the world.”

mapsontheweb:
“ The strange delimitation of Central Time Zone and Eastern Time Zone in Michigan. From http://usa.zoom-maps.com/.
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mapsontheweb:

The strange delimitation of Central Time Zone and Eastern Time Zone in Michigan. From http://usa.zoom-maps.com/.

bithedreadwolf:

@staff I am literally begging you to bring back replies sending someone a message to say I understand their text post is like calling my mom on the phone to say I like her Facebook status

thatdiabolicalfeminist:

Women are expected to perform emotional labour and men are expected to consume it without reciprocating and we’re all trained to call that love. It’s incredibly toxic, and it’s not love.

adventure gerbil (at Pinkerton Park)

adventure gerbil (at Pinkerton Park)

toxicwinner:

men are given more of everything. women have their lives taken from them. spending your time from 0-60 in a continuous anxiety about being a desirable masturbatory tool is not a life. men are considered young twice as long as women. women know their worth and they know it’s expiration date. how can you put that on a person. its abuse. “eyeliner so sharp i could kill a man” how? by prettying him to death?

outerspaceoddity:
“ the one white man who could never disappoint me
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outerspaceoddity:

the one white man who could never disappoint me